The best thing you can do to hurt someone is to feed your vices. Vices not only hurt related people but influences every other person who comes across you. Some take pride in sharing the same vices and get motivated, while some just begin to hate your habits as well as you.
In my opinion, the worst mentalities you could ever inculcate in yourself are the 'Taking people for granted' and 'Being dishonest is okay' attitude. These are the ones that tend to scar a relationship the most.
Taking people, or rather even your time, for granted, is extremely harmful for any kind of growth. If you take people for granted, they are going to get tired of not being valued enough and they will walk away. If you take your time for granted, opportunities are going to walk away. People and time, come into your life only once, it's up to you what you do with them, but what goes around does come back around. Don't throw away diamonds while collecting stones.If people take you for granted, it is because you adjust for them, you love them and let them rule over your life, you know it isn't right but you let it happen anyway. Don't do that, be brave, stand up! If you have the heart to sacrifice, you do have the courage to support yourself.
Dishonesty, even to make someone happy, isn't a right alternative at all... You should be afraid, of the friends that flatter you in person, but think otherwise in real. An honest enemy is better than a fake friend. I do think that lying can be done with words and ALSO with silence! Honesty, no matter how bad it is, it must be told. It's like a needle piercing through you, causing temporary sharp pain, but after it is in, you don't feel it.
God sends people in your life with a purpose, take good from them and build yourself. Value each and every person for all the good they've got. Be grateful for the little sacrifices people made for you, those things could be all that they ever had. People were created to be loved, things were created to be used. DO NOT mix them up! People who give are richer, remember that <3 Learn, keep your eyes open, every second, every event, every person has something great to offer! :D
In my opinion, the worst mentalities you could ever inculcate in yourself are the 'Taking people for granted' and 'Being dishonest is okay' attitude. These are the ones that tend to scar a relationship the most.
Taking people, or rather even your time, for granted, is extremely harmful for any kind of growth. If you take people for granted, they are going to get tired of not being valued enough and they will walk away. If you take your time for granted, opportunities are going to walk away. People and time, come into your life only once, it's up to you what you do with them, but what goes around does come back around. Don't throw away diamonds while collecting stones.If people take you for granted, it is because you adjust for them, you love them and let them rule over your life, you know it isn't right but you let it happen anyway. Don't do that, be brave, stand up! If you have the heart to sacrifice, you do have the courage to support yourself.
Dishonesty, even to make someone happy, isn't a right alternative at all... You should be afraid, of the friends that flatter you in person, but think otherwise in real. An honest enemy is better than a fake friend. I do think that lying can be done with words and ALSO with silence! Honesty, no matter how bad it is, it must be told. It's like a needle piercing through you, causing temporary sharp pain, but after it is in, you don't feel it.
God sends people in your life with a purpose, take good from them and build yourself. Value each and every person for all the good they've got. Be grateful for the little sacrifices people made for you, those things could be all that they ever had. People were created to be loved, things were created to be used. DO NOT mix them up! People who give are richer, remember that <3 Learn, keep your eyes open, every second, every event, every person has something great to offer! :D
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